Interviewee name:
Sakiko Umeki
Interviwer name: Sanja Trajkovska
Interview Date: 10/20/2006
Introduction
Sanja: Can you please
tell me your name, where you come from, your year of study and your major?
Sakiko: My name is Sakiko Umeki. I come from Japan. I am a sophomore and my
major is International Relations, but my original major in my university in
Japan is North American studies.
Education
Sanja: Why did you
choose St. Cloud State University as your international study site?
Sakiko: I chose St. Cloud State University because it had an exchange
program with my university in Japan. I first wanted to go to New York,
but I couldnÕt because I didnÕt have a high enough GPA, so I had to come here.
Sanja: How is the educational system in your country different from the
one in the USA? Please explain about all levels of education.
Sakiko: Students first go to Elementary school for six years, then they
go to Junior High School for three years, then they go to High School for three
years and finally if they choose to, they can go to university/college for
either two or four years.
Sanja: Can you please tell me something about your university?
Sakiko: My university is called Akita International University. It is
located in a rural environment in Japan and consists of only five hundred
students and most of the professors are from other countries, but there are
also some professors from Japan. Classes are taught in English and we can
easily make friends because it is a small university. Students are required to
live in the residence halls for one year and they are also required to go on a
study abroad program for one year.
Culture and Religion
Sanja: Since the kimono
is a very important part of your culture and tradition, can you please explain
what it is and on what occasions you wear it?
Sakiko: Kimono is a traditional Japanese dress and we normally donÕt wear
it, but old people do. We wear kimono for the coming of age ceremony, that is
when we turn 20 and also for tea ceremonies. Children wear kimonos when they
are 3, 5 or 7 years old.
Sanja: Can you tell me something about geishas and what they do?
Sakiko: Geishas are women who entertain people by dancing and singing.
Some people think that geishas are prostitutes, but they are really not.
The geisha culture is mainly located in Kyoto, the former capital of
Japan. Geishas are very expensive and only businessman and rich people
can afford them. Geishas wear kimonos and put on make-up, so that they look pretty.
Sanja: Can you tell me something about samurai?
Sakiko: Samurai are warriors and they were popular couple of hundred
years ago, but there arenÕt any samurais now.
Sanja: Can you please tell me something about sumo wrestlers?
Sakiko: Sumo is a very popular sport in Japan and it is a type of
wrestling. Sumo wrestlers are very big and they have to eat a lot to be
big. Currently, there are more sumo wrestlers from other countries than from
Japan.
Sanja: What religion do most people practice in your country?
Sakiko: Most of the people in Japan practice Christianity, Buddhism and
Shinto. Many people practice both Shinto and Buddhism, which is kind of
weird. In a typical Japanese house, youÕll find sacred objects of both
Shinto and Buddhism and people go to both temples and shrines. When someone
dies, we go to a temple, but for New YearÕs Day, most of the people go to a
shrine.
Sanja: What about your family? Is religion an important part of
your family life?
Sakiko: Yes, my family practises both Shinto and Buddhism, so we have sacred
objects of both Shinto and Buddhism in my house.
Food
Sanja: OK, can you
please describe some of your national food specialties?
Sakiko: Japanese people eat healthy food. Soya food plays a very
important part in our daily diet. We make many things from soy, such as
tofu and choya, which is a soy sauce and we also drink soy milk. Soy is
the most important part of Japanese cuisine. We also eat fish, such as sushi.
Sushi is raw fish with rice and it is usually prepared in restaurants,
not at home. Other traditional dishes include navee which consists of
vegetables, meat and noodles. Everyone eats navee from the same pot.
Sanja: Can you explain what sake is?
Sakiko: Sake is a very strong alcoholic beverage made from rice and there are
many kinds of sake made in different regions of Japan.
Sport and Music
Sanja: WhatÕs the most
popular sport in Japan?
Sakiko: The most popular sports in Japan are baseball and soccer and many
children engage in these sports. When the World Cup in soccer takes
place, soccer becomes very popular and people who donÕt normally watch soccer,
suddenly become big fans of soccer.
Sanja: What type of music do you listen in Japan?
Sakiko: We mostly listen Japanese pop music, but we also like American pop
music. ThereÕs also Japanese rap, but I donÕt like it, itÕs kind of weird.
Family Life and Holidays
Sanja: How do you keep in
touch with your family and friends in Japan?
Sakiko: I sometimes call them and I also use MSN Messenger to talk to them, but
usually I send them e-mails. Sometimes itÕs very hard to talk to them
because the time difference between Japan and the USA is 14 hours.
Sanja: How many members does an average family consist of?
Sakiko: An average family consists of four or five people.
Nowadays, there are more and more families that consist of three members,
that is a mother and a father and a child, but I think itÕs very common to have
two children.
Sanja: Who in your family earns an income and who determines what happens
in a family?
Sakiko: In my family, both of my parents earn an income, but my father is
the one who determines what happens in our family.
Sanja: Do men and women have equal rights in Japan?
Sakiko: According to the laws, men and women should have equal rights, but in
reality they donÕt have equal rights at home or in some companies.
Sanja: Who does the household chores?
Sakiko: Mostly women do the household chores, but some families decide to
divide all the responsibilities in the household equally.
Sanja: Can you tell me something about Japanese weddings?
Sakiko: Wedding ceremonies take place in temples. The bride and the groom wear
traditional Japanese clothes such as kimono and the bride wears a wig. When the
couple decides to get married, the groom goes to the brideÕs house to ask her
parents for permission to get married. It has recently become very common to
have wedding receptions in hotels and not to wear traditional clothing, but to
wear wedding dresses instead. I think weddings are becoming more westernized.
People usually get married at the age of twenty-six, if people get married
after they turn thirty, we call them loosers.
Sanja: Do you have arranged marriages?
Sakiko: Yes, but they were more common long time ago. The bridesÕ
parents used to make their daughter marry someone from the neighboring village.
Sanja: Can you tell me how you celebrate ValentineÕs Day?
Sakiko: On ValentineÕs Day, the woman gives her boyfriend chocolate and
she tells him that she loves him. On March 14th, there is a holiday called
White Day and on this day the men who got chocolate for ValentineÕs Day give a
present to their loved ones.
Sanja: What are some of your most important holidays and how do you celebrate
them?
Sakiko: The most important holiday in Japan is New YearÕs Day. For
this holiday, we eat special food called ozoni. It consists of different types
of ingredients such as lobster, eggs and beans. We also go to a shrine to pray
for a good year and the whole family gets together. What I like the most
about New Year is that little children and teenagers receive money from their
parents, aunts and uncles.
Government
Sanja: Can you tell me
something about the type of government in Japan?
Sakiko: Japan has a parliamentary system, so we donÕt have a president,
but we have a prime minister. We have an emperor too and he used to be
very powerful long time ago, but right now he has no power at all. He is
a just a symbol of the country. So, he has no influence on politics, he
just represents the country.
Lifestyle and Views
Sanja: What are the major
differences in comparing your life here and at home?
Sakiko: Here, I live in a dorm with people who only speak English and I
have to use transportation if I want to go somewhere off-campus. If I
were in Tokyo, I could go by train anywhere I want. Trains are very
frequent, they come every ten minutes, but here I need to have a car to go
somewhere or I have to use the bus.
Sanja: What do you like the most about the USA?
Sakiko: People here are very friendly and nice and I like the weather here
better because the weather in Japan is very humid. What I really like
about St. Cloud is that there are parties all over the place on weekends.
Sanja: What donÕt you like about the USA?
Sakiko: I donÕt like the food here. IÕm getting tired of eating
burgers and French fries all the time.
I donÕt like that there is racism in the USA. I know that some people
hate Asians and there have been many incidents where people have been killed
because they are Asians. I donÕt like that people call us yellow and that
sometimes we are discriminated.
Sanja: What surprised you the most about the USA?
Sakiko: It surprised me that when people walk on the street even if they donÕt
know you, they greet you, they say something like: ŌHi! How are you?Ķ or ŌHow
is it going?Ķ We never do that in Japan. People are very
friendly and talkative and they always greet me.
Sanja: What is the image of the USA in your country?
Sakiko: We think of the USA as a dangerous country because we watch
violent movies that involve murders, rapes and racism. However, we also
think of the USA as a very liberal country and we think that people can do
whatever they want here.
People in Japan think that when you go to the USA, youÕll get fat because of
the fast food.
Sanja: When you go back to Japan, what are you going to tell your family and
friends about Minnesota and St. Cloud?
Sakiko: When I go back to Japan, IÕll tell my friends and family that itÕs very
cold in Minnesota, thereÕs allot of countryside and it is very quiet and
peaceful. IÕll also tell them that people in Minnesota are very nice and
friendly.
Sanja: What kind of culture shock did you experience when you came to the USA?
Sakiko: I was really shocked that people here shake hands when they greet each
other and in Japan we never do that. We greet each other by bowing.
We also never hug or kiss, not even with our parents or siblings. ItÕs
appropriate only for couples to show affection to each other. We are a
culture that doesnÕt touch, and if we hug or kiss in public, people would think
thatÕs weird. So, I was very surprised when people here tried to shake
hands with me when we met.
Clothing
Sanja: What about clothing?
How do you dress in Japan?
Sakiko: People in the USA donÕt care how they are dressed, especially at
college. People wear mostly jeans, sweatshirts and hoodies, whereas in
Japan everyone is very careful about the way they are dressed. People are
very fashionable and wear fancy clothes and young people use most of their
money for shopping. Even at college in Japan, people dress very nicely
and donÕt wear casual outfit like they do here. I was surprised to see
that college students here carry bag packs. In Japan, we donÕt carry bag packs
and girls especially dress very fashionably. Clothing is very important
in Japan and everyday you have to think what clothes you are going to wear,
whereas here I can wear whatever I find in my closet. It doesnÕt really
matter how I am dressed here.
Transportation
Sanja: What means of
transportation do you use in Japan?
Sakiko: The most common means of transportation is train and trains come every
five minutes. Trains are very common especially in Tokyo because itÕs a
big city. Some people in Tokyo donÕt own cars, but they use trains
instead. Trains are very convenient because they can take you anywhere.
Usually trains are not very crowded in the afternoon, but they are really
crowded in the morning when everyone goes to school or work. Since itÕs
very crowded, sometimes you canÕt move. Young girls donÕt like when old
men come near them and sometimes they touch them. This is very unpleasant
and itÕs a very big issue in Japan. Lots of high school girls are touched
by men in the trains and itÕs really scary. ItÕs not very safe for girls
to ride on trains alone. Since itÕs a very big problem, some train
companies decided to make separate compartments for men and women and I think
thatÕs a good idea.
Closing thoughts
Sanja: Is there anything
else that you would like to tell me about Japan?
Sakiko: Yes, thereÕs another difference that I noticed between the USA and
Japan. In Japan, itÕs very offensive to ask women questions about their
weight. We donÕt tell anyone how much we weigh. Also, earthquakes
are very common and they happen once a week on average.
Sanja: What are your plans for the future?
Sakiko: After I graduate in Japan, I would like to work in Disneyland in
Tokyo because that has been my dream for a long time.
Sanja: Sakiko, thank you very much for agreeing to do this interview with
me! Have a nice day!